Can anyone help me with this?

A lot depends on the era in which you grew up and what the ideal sex man was like back then. You may recall it was not that long ago that men with significant body hair like tom Selek and before him Burt Reynolds were sex symbols. Many women still prefer men to boys - you are working to look like a hairless boy. It is your choice but why not be happy to be a mature man and yes to look like one